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The lesson begins with a reworded quote emphasizing that someone needs help from someone. The teacher references Galatians 6:1-2, where Paul instructs the spiritual to restore those overtaken in trespass with gentleness, considering their own vulnerability to temptation. This involves bearing one another’s burdens, thereby fulfilling the law of Christ. The core idea is that people, including those within the church, may carry heavy burdens requiring assistance from others.

Building on the theme of help, the teacher transitions to families sometimes needing assistance. He recalls the creation account where God saw that it was not good for Adam to be alone. Despite Adam naming the animals, none could provide the suitable help he required. God then caused Adam to sleep, took a rib, and built a woman from it. This foundation leads into Ephesians 5:22 through 6:4, focusing on family relationships, beginning with husbands and wives.

The teacher examines Ephesians 5:28-29, stating that husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies, since loving one’s wife is loving oneself. No one hates their own flesh but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does the church. Husbands must not be domineering or mistreat their wives but love them sacrificially, as Christ loved the church and gave Himself for her to sanctify and cleanse her by the word. Christ is the bridegroom, and the church is His bride. Wives are instructed to submit to their own husbands as to the Lord, recognizing the husband as the head of the wife, mirroring Christ as head of the church and Savior of the body. Husbands should be prepared to defend and even give their lives for their wives, following Christ’s example. The church is subject to Christ, so wives should be to their husbands. Paul describes believers as members of Christ’s body, flesh, and bones, quoting Genesis that a man leaves father and mother to join his wife, becoming one flesh. This is a great mystery referring to Christ and the church.

Nevertheless, each husband must love his wife as himself, and the wife must respect her husband. Such a relationship fosters harmony, though disagreements may still arise. The teacher shares an anecdote of a woman contemplating divorce due to her husband’s poor treatment. Advised to serve him attentively for one month—preparing his slippers, newspaper, and supper without complaint—she later reported that he had become the nicest man, illustrating how proper treatment can transform marital dynamics.

The lesson addresses children in the family, who need nurturing and admonition of the Lord. It is lamentable that many children today lack proper teaching from parents, often because parents are exhausted from work or influenced by secular ideas in schools denying God and promoting evolution. Parents must not provoke children to wrath but raise them in the Lord’s training. Children are commanded to obey their parents in the Lord, as this is right and pleasing to God (also referencing Colossians 3:20). They must honor father and mother—the first commandment with promise—for well-being and long life on earth.

This honor extends beyond childhood; adult children should care for aging parents as parents cared for them when young. Jesus rebuked the Pharisees and scribes in Matthew 15 for nullifying God’s commandment to honor parents through their tradition of declaring resources as a gift to God, excusing support for parents. God commanded honor for father and mother, with severe consequence for cursing them, yet their tradition made the commandment ineffective.

Families suffer when husbands and wives are at odds, especially if the husband is domineering, wasting resources needed for the home, leading to fracture. God recognized man’s need for help from the beginning. Jesus invites all who labor and are heavy laden to come to Him for rest, as His yoke is easy and burden light. Coming to Christ provides rest, and believers should help others bear burdens.

The teacher suggests this may be the first of further lessons on the topic, emphasizing that families sometimes need help, and someone should provide it. He closes by noting God’s constant presence and help, never forsaking His people. A prayer follows, thanking God for the study, asking for willingness to help others, acknowledging divine help through Christ, and requesting guidance, protection, and future opportunities to gather and study the word. The prayer ends in Christ’s name with amen.