25-0330a - Life’s Not Fair, Tom Freed
Bible Readers: Mike Mathis and Roger Raines

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Life’s Not Fair

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Scripture Readings:

1st Scripture Reading (0:04 - 0:24), Mike Mathis
Proverbs 19:3,

The transcript begins with an initial scripture reading from Proverbs 19:3, which states, "The bullishness of a man twists his way, and his heart frets against the Lord." This brief reading sets the tone for the sermon, suggesting a theme of personal responsibility and human tendencies to resist or blame divine will. The speaker greets the congregation with a simple "Good morning," marking the start of the service.

2nd Scripture Reading (0:29 - 1:00), Roger Raines
Psalm 103:10-12,

The speaker then presents a second scripture from Psalm 103:10-12, emphasizing God’s mercy and forgiveness. The passage highlights that God does not punish people according to their sins but instead shows immense love and kindness, removing transgressions "as far as the east is from the west" for those who revere Him. This reading introduces a contrast to the earlier verse, focusing on divine grace rather than human fault.

Summary

Preacher: Tom Freed

(1:05 - 1:09) Transition and Greeting

The speaker offers a warm "Good morning," expressing pleasure at seeing the congregation. This brief interlude serves as a transition from the scripture readings to the main sermon, fostering a sense of community and engagement.

(1:10 - 1:42) Introduction to Sermon Topic

The speaker announces their turn in the preaching rotation and introduces the sermon title, "Life’s Not Fair," noting its apparent appeal to the audience. They suggest that the title resonates because many people have experienced moments when life feels unjust, whether due to unfair treatment or undeserved misfortune. This section establishes the central theme: the perception of life’s unfairness and how people respond to it.

(1:43 - 2:07) Common Experiences of Unfairness

Expanding on the theme, the speaker acknowledges that everyone has faced situations where they felt unfairly treated or encountered inexplicable hardships. They invite the congregation to reflect on their own experiences, suggesting that at that very moment, some might feel burdened by problems they believe they don’t deserve. Examples like job loss or battling cancer are briefly mentioned, grounding the discussion in relatable struggles.

(2:07 - 2:42) Examples of Life’s Challenges

The speaker elaborates on specific hardships, noting that many in the congregation have fought or are fighting cancer, with some members having passed away. Other examples include heart disease, car accidents, debt, divorce, and the loss of loved ones. They emphasize that life’s journey is filled with both good and bad events, reinforcing the universality of these challenges and setting the stage for a deeper exploration of responsibility.

(2:43 - 3:38) Reactions to Adversity

The discussion shifts to how people react when bad things happen. The speaker poses rhetorical questions about whether individuals blame God, angrily questioning "why me," or instead reflect on the reasons behind their troubles. They point out that many problems stem from personal choices, yet people often deflect responsibility onto God when facing consequences. The speaker admits to having done this themselves, encouraging the congregation to consider their own tendencies to blame God for self-inflicted issues.

(3:40 - 4:08) Revisiting Proverbs 19:3

Returning to Proverbs 19:3, the speaker reiterates that "a man’s own folly ruins his life, yet his heart rages against the Lord." They suggest this is a common human behavior—making poor decisions and then faulting God for the fallout. This reinforces the sermon’s focus on personal accountability, using the scripture to underscore the folly of misplaced blame.

(4:10 - 5:06) Personal Responsibility for Life’s Outcomes

The speaker asserts that individuals are ultimately responsible for their life’s trajectory, shaped by the choices they make and their consequences. They provide examples: financial struggles might result from quitting a job, divorce from neglect or infidelity, and health issues from poor lifestyle choices. These illustrations challenge the congregation to consider how their actions, rather than divine intervention, often lead to their difficulties.

(5:08 - 5:41) Personal Reflection on Responsibility

The speaker shares a personal anecdote about their past struggles with drinking and arrests, admitting they blamed God despite not being a Christian at the time. They reflect on how easy it is to avoid taking responsibility, even now as a believer, and how this reluctance complicates self-awareness and growth. This vulnerability strengthens their call for accountability.

(5:42 - 6:26) Biblical Origins of Blame-Shifting

Tracing this behavior back to Genesis, the speaker recounts the story of Adam and Eve. After eating the forbidden fruit, Adam blamed both Eve and God, while Eve blamed the serpent. Despite knowing God’s command, they succumbed to temptation and then avoided accountability. This narrative frames blame-shifting as an inherited human trait, evident from the earliest biblical account.

(6:28 - 7:49) Adam and Eve’s Blame Game

Delving deeper, the speaker cites Genesis 3:12-13 to illustrate Adam and Eve’s immediate deflection of responsibility. Adam accused God for placing Eve with him, and Eve pointed to the serpent’s deception. The speaker highlights their awareness of God’s rule yet their choice to disobey, driven by curiosity or desire for reward, only to blame others when confronted.

(7:50 - 8:40) Contrast with David’s Accountability

In contrast, the speaker presents King David’s response to his sins of adultery and murder. When confronted by Nathan, David immediately confessed, saying, "I have sinned against the Lord" (2 Samuel 12:13). Unlike Adam, David took full responsibility, and God forgave him. This example serves as a model of humility and repentance, suggesting that owning one’s actions leads to divine mercy.

(8:41 - 9:50) Confession and Forgiveness

The speaker connects David’s story to broader biblical teachings, citing 1 John 1:9-10 and Proverbs 28:13. They explain that confessing sins brings forgiveness and purification, while denying them hinders mercy. This theological point reinforces the sermon’s message: taking responsibility is essential for spiritual reconciliation and growth.

(9:50 - 11:02) Not All Problems Are Self-Inflicted

Acknowledging nuance, the speaker clarifies that not all hardships result from personal choices. They list examples like being a crime victim, suffering from a drunk driver, or losing everything due to external factors like market crashes or a spouse’s infidelity. These uncontrollable events illustrate that life’s unfairness sometimes stems from circumstances beyond one’s influence.

(11:04 - 11:49) Spiritual Attacks and Trials

The speaker introduces the idea that some difficulties may come from the devil’s attacks, especially on Christians. Citing 1 Peter 4:12, they urge the congregation not to be surprised by trials, framing them as tests of faith. This shifts the discussion from personal responsibility to external spiritual forces, broadening the sermon’s scope.

(11:50 - 12:32) The Devil’s Assault

Further emphasizing this, the speaker references Ephesians 6:16 and 1 Peter 5:8, describing the devil’s relentless attacks as "flaming arrows" and a predator seeking to devour. They liken this to Job’s trials, suggesting that Satan targets the faithful with full force within God’s permitted limits, adding a layer of cosmic struggle to life’s challenges.

(12:33 - 13:45) Job’s Story of Unjust Suffering

The speaker recounts Job’s story from Job 1:9-12, where Satan challenges Job’s faith, and God allows him to strip Job of his possessions, servants, and children. Despite his righteousness, Job endures immense loss, illustrating that suffering can strike the innocent. This narrative contrasts with earlier examples of self-inflicted woes, highlighting external affliction.

(13:46 - 14:48) Job’s Response and Perseverance

The speaker notes that Job felt unfairly punished, questioning God’s actions since he believed he was sinless in this context. Even his friends accused him of hidden sin, yet Job maintained his innocence, complaining to God about his undeserved plight. This section underscores the complexity of suffering, blending personal lament with steadfast faith, setting up further exploration in the sermon.

(14:49 - 15:28) God Confronts Job

The speaker continues the narrative of Job, describing how God finally confronts him at the end of the Book of Job. God challenges Job, asking if a faultfinder can contend with the Almighty and inviting him to answer if he dares to argue (Job 40:1-5). Job responds humbly, acknowledging his insignificance by saying, "Behold, I am of small account," and choosing silence by placing his hand over his mouth. He admits to having spoken once but vows not to continue, recognizing his inability to challenge God’s authority.

(15:29 - 16:08) Job’s Realization and Repentance

When God explains His power, creation, and greatness, Job is left speechless, realizing he cannot match God’s knowledge or wisdom. The speaker notes that Job repents "in dust and ashes" for questioning God about the evils he endured. Job’s humility reflects his understanding that arguing with the Almighty Creator is futile, a lesson the speaker suggests the congregation should also heed.

(16:10 - 16:49) God’s Justice to Job

The speaker highlights that, despite Job’s trials, God ultimately blesses him with twice as much as he had before, and Job lives an additional 140 years. This outcome demonstrates God’s justice, even after Satan’s attacks. The speaker argues that this shows humans have no right to blame God or claim life is unfair, as they lack insight into the spiritual realm and God’s purposes behind the evil they experience.

(16:49 - 17:48) The Limits of Human Understanding

Emphasizing humanity’s ignorance of the spiritual world, the speaker questions whether clay can argue with the potter, citing Isaiah 45:9-10. This passage warns against quarreling with one’s Maker, comparing humans to mere potsherds questioning the potter’s work. The speaker uses this analogy to illustrate the absurdity of challenging God, who formed humans from dust, reinforcing that mortals lack the perspective to judge divine actions.

(17:48 - 18:37) God’s Transcendent Wisdom

The speaker continues by asserting that God’s thoughts and ways far surpass human understanding, quoting Isaiah 55:9: "As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are your ways higher than my ways and my thoughts than your thoughts." They stress humanity’s insignificance compared to God, questioning how anyone could presume to challenge Him when His reasons for allowing Satan’s attacks remain hidden.

(18:38 - 19:03) Trials as Refinement

The speaker suggests that God may permit suffering to test and refine believers, likening it to purifying gold and silver in a crucible. They cite Proverbs 17:3, "The crucible for silver and the furnace for gold, but the Lord tests the heart," and Psalm 66:10, "For you, O God, tested us; you refined us like silver." This framing presents trials as a divine process to strengthen faith, not merely as punishment.

(19:04 - 20:02) Strengthening Faith Through Trials

Expanding on this metaphor, the speaker explains that life’s fiery trials can either destroy faith or refine it, making believers stronger. They reference 1 Peter 1:7, which states that faith, more precious than gold, is proven genuine through trials, resulting in praise and glory when Christ returns, and Zechariah 13:9, where God refines His people like silver, promising to answer their calls. These scriptures underscore the potential for spiritual growth amidst suffering.

(20:03 - 20:45) Perseverance Inspired by Job

The speaker encourages perseverance, comparing the refining process of metals to the purification of the heart. They urge those facing unfair trials to look to Job, who endured far worse yet remained faithful. The congregation is reminded that their struggles pale in comparison, leaving no excuse for giving up or blaming God.

(20:48 - 21:16) The Danger of Blaming God

The speaker warns against turning away from God during trials, emphasizing that Job never blamed Him despite his immense suffering. They cite Revelation 2:10, promising the "crown of life" to those who remain faithful through persecution, even unto death. This section reinforces the call to endure faithfully rather than resent God.

(21:17 - 21:58) God’s Fairness in Testing

Acknowledging that life indeed feels unfair, the speaker assures the congregation that God does not test beyond what they can bear. They encourage perseverance through tough times, affirming the sermon’s earlier admission that life’s unfairness is real but framing it as a manageable challenge under God’s oversight.

(21:59 - 22:45) God’s Mercy Exceeds Fairness

The speaker shifts to God’s mercy, arguing that He is far fairer than humans deserve. They suggest that if God punished every sin, no one would survive, referencing Psalm 103:10-12 again to highlight His love and forgiveness. This repetition ties back to the sermon’s opening, emphasizing that God’s removal of transgressions demonstrates His disproportionate grace.

(22:47 - 23:48) God’s Compassion and Forgiveness

Continuing this theme, the speaker marvels at God’s patience and compassion, noting daily personal sins that go unpunished. They quote Micah 7:19, where God casts sins into the "depths of the sea," illustrating His willingness to forgive completely. This imagery reinforces the idea that humanity’s punishment falls short of its deserved severity.

(23:49 - 24:54) Jesus as the True Victim of Unfairness

The speaker declares that only Jesus can rightfully claim life’s unfairness, as He, sinless and perfect, suffered crucifixion despite His good works (1 Peter 2:22). They recount His miracles and voluntary sacrifice, noting that He chose the cross to save humanity, fulfilling Old Testament law and demonstrating ultimate love.

(24:55 - 25:58) Christ’s Sacrifice for Humanity

Detailing Christ’s death, the speaker cites Romans 5:8, Isaiah 53:5, and John 3:16, portraying it as an act of love that heals and grants eternal life. They contrast Jesus’ unfair treatment with humanity’s merciful reprieve, arguing that His sacrifice ensures believers’ forgiveness, making life "more than fair" for them.

(25:59 - 26:47) God’s Desire for Salvation

The speaker asserts that Jesus’ resurrection proves His victory over unfairness, and God’s fairness is evident in His desire for all to repent (2 Peter 3:9). They emphasize that salvation is accessible, requiring only trust and obedience, despite the challenges of living a Christian life.

(26:48 - 27:18) No Argument Against God

Returning to Job, the speaker notes his silence before God, suggesting that no one, not even the wisest, can outargue Him. They warn that anyone could face God’s judgment suddenly, quoting Hebrews 10:31, "It is a fearful thing to fall into the hands of the living God," to underscore the gravity of accountability.

(27:19 - 27:59) Urgency of Repentance

Imagining standing before God, the speaker compares it to facing a human judge, amplifying the terror of divine judgment. They urge non-Christians or those in sin to act now, framing life’s perceived unfairness as a call to change one’s attitude and seek redemption.

(28:01 - 28:25) Closing Invitation

The speaker concludes by reiterating God’s fairness and the inevitability of life’s trials, encouraging personal responsibility to improve one’s circumstances. They invite non-Christians, those with problems, or anyone with good news to come forward, ending the sermon with an open call to action.